We are tuned to do things in such a way that, there is always a small
window of hope that expects recognition from a single person that one
considers important.
For instance, A goal at the last minute and yet the full joy of the same is not felt until that respecting yet acknowledging nod from the coach at the pavilion. It is common to expect such things from someone that stands close to us and yet what happens when there is not the desired response from the person ?
Dejection ?
Except for people who study human nature and tendencies of behavior, the rules about emotion and nature of behavior change from person to person. The mind of a person perceives to itself that, the way the same reacts is how everyone would react to, when given with the same circumstances and this is the reason for half the fights with a relationship base and thus the way one might react when there is not the desired response from the expected person differs from person to person.
Yet, is it not the branching point where either perfection is achieved or quitters originate?
The person who is considered important should know the same thyself and might handle it the way it can be handled to push the expecting one to great heights....or why take all this trouble ?
The choice between these two options is what it takes to be either a best friend/adviser/well wisher or just another person in life.
For instance, A goal at the last minute and yet the full joy of the same is not felt until that respecting yet acknowledging nod from the coach at the pavilion. It is common to expect such things from someone that stands close to us and yet what happens when there is not the desired response from the person ?
Dejection ?
Except for people who study human nature and tendencies of behavior, the rules about emotion and nature of behavior change from person to person. The mind of a person perceives to itself that, the way the same reacts is how everyone would react to, when given with the same circumstances and this is the reason for half the fights with a relationship base and thus the way one might react when there is not the desired response from the expected person differs from person to person.
Yet, is it not the branching point where either perfection is achieved or quitters originate?
The person who is considered important should know the same thyself and might handle it the way it can be handled to push the expecting one to great heights....or why take all this trouble ?
The choice between these two options is what it takes to be either a best friend/adviser/well wisher or just another person in life.
very well analysed shankar... true! how u respect a person's emotions is what decides where u stand in that person's heart. Most often we find it bugging when ppl set expectations from ur.. in the name of an unwarranted liberty! It needn require any studies on human behaviour to follow this, but just takes a little of one's heart to put themselves in the other's shoes.. to be able to understand how it feels at the other end!
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